Promises
Specific Promises
Clinical Studies
Clinical studies have found no statistically significant effect of intercessory prayer on medical outcomes:
- The STEP Project (Study of the Therapeutic Effects of Intercessory Prayer) examined 1,802 coronary bypass patients and found no effect of prayer on complications or recovery
- A Cochrane review of 10 studies involving 7,646 patients found no overall effect of intercessory prayer on health outcomes
Responses
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"God's timing may not be your timing."
This response suggests that when a prayer isn't answered, it just means God hasn't done it *yet*. You're supposed to keep waiting, possibly forever. While this might offer some hope, it also makes the original promise impossible to disprove – any amount of waiting can just be called 'God's timing'.
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"God's will may not be your will."
This common answer claims that God doesn't answer some prayers because they don't fit His 'bigger plan', even if the prayer is for something good like healing. Believers might point to verses like 1 John 5:14-15, but this adds a condition ('if it's God's will') that Jesus often didn't include when he made straightforward promises about getting what you ask for.
My Prayers
The existence of this website serves as evidence that my prayers have been unanswered. Below are actual prayers from my journal.
3/13/2025 God, if you're there, please hear my prayer. I am struggling, and a relationship with you would restore that hope, meaning, and purpose that I once had. No longer do I feel those things, and I no longer have the security I once had. God, if you're there, I know your will would be for me to return to the fold and to give a testimony. Yes, I doubt if you're there. Yes, I doubt what your will is. Yes, I'm doubting if this prayer will even work. But I this point, all I can do is be honest and transparent—it's not like you don't know my intentions. Specifically, I pray that you would use supernatural circumstances to draw me back to you. It can be a divine encounter, dream, or working through natural relationships that I have with other people. Simply put, I need a miracle. But maybe you know better. 1/15/2025 God, help me to be still and know that you are God. 12/15/2024 God, if you're there, make yourself known to me. Make me certain in my faith. I am doubting and struggling. I sincerely want to believe in you. I've lost my comfort. I'm lost and confused. I've lost my security and assurance. Still thinking that maybe God will turn my life around and I'll be a testimony later on. Maybe these are just trials. 12/5/2024 God, if you're there, help me overcome this anxiety. That is proof in and of itself. 12/3/2024 God if you're there, help me out. Either give me more of this feeling to confirm that you're there, or reveal something to me intellectually that shows that I can believe regardless of barriers. 11/28/2024 God, if you're there, help me believe again. I do feel more at peace and more neutral now, but I'm still asking for your help God. If my unbelief is a result of me sinning, I repent of that. I rebuke that sin. Remove the barrier between me and you and help me believe again. At this point, a turn toward belief would be the best evidence of all that you're real, since I am thoroughly convinced of the opposite. Make me like Cornelius in Acts. 6/11/2024 God, if you're there, please help me understand everything. Reveal yourself to me. The sooner the better, since my marriage is suffering. I know I need to ask with a sincere heart, but I don't even know how to do that. So I am asking you to do it for me. Maybe all of these words are just vain and empty because I don't believe them. I'm just saying that to be transparent and cover my bases. Jesus, please change my heart. If you desire to change me, change me. If you desire to have me be a testimony, have me be a testimony. Right now, as I'm typing, I don't feel anything internally. I do feel a fear of God being real and killing me or smiting me on the spot. That is a very big fear for me right now. I pray that the best example I could be is if I'm alive and healthy and Jesus appears to me and rescues my life. I don't know how much longer I can last believing. I need God to help. And if I am being stubborn or selfish, please remove that from me and don't withhold yourself from me God. I'm just trying to cover my bases so that I allow you to work in any way you wish. Thank you lord. 6/9/2024 God, if you're there, please reveal yourself to me. Make it personal and real so I believe without a doubt. Maybe I'm asking for a sign. Maybe i shouldn't ask for that. I pray that you would reveal yourself to me and save me if there is such a thing as heaven and hell. Please save me on your goodness if that is true. If it is not, please help me understand. Goodnight. 1/7/2023 I want to thank you for your faithfulness. You’re a God that answers prayers. I don’t have peace or understanding for everything yet, but you’re operating through me to instill confidence and joy on me. 1/4/2023 From you through you and to you are all things. You are a God of compassion and courage, not one of fear and punishment. Forgive me for my sins God... I rely on you God, and I know you hear my prayers. Help me seek you when I pray and during the day today. I want to wait on you God to hear the answer to my prayers. Lord, give me a peace that surpasses all understanding in todays work... you are a true and living God who hears my prayers. Hear my prayer for peace, confidence, and joy today, Lord. Amen.